Nigerians are always proud to say that they can't love another person's child the way they'd love theirs, and that goes to show how emotionally and mentally damaged they are. It's obvious that these people do not have any love to give, so they have kids to give them love instead.
Also there is this idea that being a parent is a privilege which grants them automatic access to the child's life, decisions and wealth. It makes sense that this kind of entitlement can only happen with a child whom you conceived with your sperm or carried in your womb for 9 months.
Our understanding of the parent-child dynamic is totally fucked up.
Little wonder Nigerians regularly treat house helps, step children, nieces and nephews like trash. Take a look at an average family picture and you will immediately spot the servants or the distant relatives. They have a dullness to them, compared to the biological children who are glowing effortlessly.
I'm a childfree woman, but I wouldn't have any problem dating a man who has a kid or kids. I could say no because I do not want the responsibility of looking after children, but my yes would mean accepting him and his kids without reservations.
If you are the kind of person who rebukes adoption as if it's a curse because your child must share DNA with you, otherwise you wouldn't be able to love him or her, let me tell you now that there is something wrong with you. You are not capable of love and I doubt you will even love your kids.
We see you future abusers of children who did not spring out of their genitalia. We see you and we want to let you know that you will never fool us into thinking that you are a good person.
Remember: the blood of the brotherhood is thicker than the water of the womb.
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