THE HYPOCRISY OF JUDGMENTAL PEOPLE

Let me tell you a quick story. So, one idiot called The Cockerel said that one of the reasons why her clique did not like me is because I lost my virginity at 16. Well, I have never hidden that. 

 But guess what? The Cockerel lost her virginity around that same age. Given the timeline of her story, she might have even lost hers at 15. I know this because she used her own mouth to admit it to her friend D. after she was outed by her ex boyfriend with whom she had sex at 17.

 

The Cockerel's father was a wealthy businessman and as a wealthy businessman he collected wives like trophies. The Cockerel's mother was wife number 3 and she was married off to him at the age of 16-17. 

 

Tragedy befell the entire family when the man died and his brother took over his company, leaving his three wives to cater to their total of 10 children by themselves. 

 

The Cockerel's mother found help in her cousin who helped her to travel to Germany to seek for political asylum, which she was denied. That prompted her to relocate to Italy where she finally settled down and managed to buy herself a studio flat in a ghetto.

 

The Cockerel on the other hand never accepted the fact that she had lost her privileged background, so she started scouting for a rich boyfriend to take care of her. That's how she ended up with a man in his late 20s who probably introduced her to the abusive lifestyle that she lives to date.

 

But this same The Cockerel would lie that she was a virgin and slutshame other girls at every given opportunity. 

 

She's the type of person who would call out women for dressing immodestly while she's dying to wear those same outfits. Outfits she can't wear because of her bogus physique. 

 

She's the type that will tag a girl a slut simply because she hit puberty earlier than her mates and has an ample bosom.

 

She's the type that will call a woman a prostitute, while her own mother was practically sold into marriage at 16, and she herself started hustling her toto to men since she was 15. Not to mention that her mother was fond of effing married men up to the point where she got knocked up by one and had to go and terminate the pregnancy to hide the shame. The married man was an elder in church. Even the mother's cousin's wife distanced herself from her because of this habit of hers of sleeping with married men.

 

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Many of you on this Facebook are like The Cockerel. You want to castigate a 20 year old girl when some of you can't even remember the name of your first sex partner or how many men or women you have slept with.

 

You went to a group called Hoely Community to lift her posts, just so you can have an excuse to invalidate her story.

 

Nobody has ever said that she's a child. Instead I, like others, said that she was vulnerable. Vulnerability is not only a matter of age. It's can also be a matter of circumstances. 

 

May you never find yourself in a situation where you are in desperate need of help and the closest person to helping you demands that you do something that you wouldn't normally do.

 

Not everybody feels safe at home and not everybody has a home to return to. 

 

Do not be unfortunate like The Cockerel. Tomorrow your own story will come out and we won't have any sympathy to spare.