IT'S NOT BY CHANCE THE WIFE LOOKS LIKE THAT

I stand by my opinion that the side chick has no reason being with a man whose wife looks like that. And both the wife and the husband are to blame.

Say, for example, the wife leaves the man and the man marries the side chick, give it three years and the side chick would start to show the same signs of self neglect. Then the man would go outside and find himself another kpem side chick.

You can tell a lot about that man by simply looking at his wife and what has become of her after a few years of marriage. I am almost certain that she did not look like this when they got married.

An ex of mine married this non pretty woman, but he did not accept her like that simply because he met her like that. Before she met him, she dressed up like a church girl with basic make up. Now she wears cleavage revealing tops with the kind of make up you see on make up tutorials. Kind of a Teddy A and Bambam situation. 

That is obviously a man who cares that his wife looks presentable, in spite of her not being pretty. 

You don't have to be good looking to look presentable. That's the point. 

One time like that, my mother and a friend of mine chose an objectively ugly boy over a cute boy simply because the ugly boy looked polished, while the cute boy looked local, in their opinion. I disagreed, but it didn't do anything to change their mind.

You keep talking about weight and natural hair. Aren't there fat women with natural hair that look presentable? In fact, I'm attaching a picture to this post to show you that weight and hair are not the problem here.

The problem is the neglect this wife is neglecting herself because "I'm a married woman in sifia pain". 

It's like these women are not objective with their expectations. After seeing what happened to their mothers, aunties, sisters, cousins and friends, they still don't understand that MARRIAGE IN NIGERIA RUINS WOMEN? After everything, you still want to go with the flow? 

That woman needs to take a look at herself. That marriage is bad for her. The man is bad for her. In fact he is bad for every woman out there.

Among the wife, the husband and the side chick, they all suck and for different reasons. None is coming out looking good.